And what emerges from this portrait of Russian Jews? Money, greed, dishonesty, cars, jewelry, looks, shallowness, vulgarity, indecency, disrespect, sleaziness. Those are the themes on which the show is centered. It’s about a bunch of attention seekers, both young and old, who have nothing better to do with themselves than cause drama and brag about their wealth. In an early episode, Marina, one of the main characters, demands that her husband give her money to buy jewelry. When he asks if $20,000 will be enough, she responds with, “What can I buy for 20K?” In another episode, one of the younger “dolls,” Diana, who wears a giant diamond Star of David and seems to spend her days in a tanning booth, permanently tattoos lip liner around her mouth. Her father’s reaction is, “In five years, you’ll look like babushka!” The entire show is full of such characters, speaking disdainfully to everyone, showing huge attitude and talking behind each other’s backs.

I understand that this is no different from any other reality show — the “Desperate Housewives” of Brooklyn, if you will — but because it is the first exposure that most Americans will have to this immigrant community, it is also an embarrassment and an offense to Russian Jews.

The show has indeed spurred a great deal of anti-Semitism from non-Jewish Russians who are ashamed of how these few outlandish characters are representing all Russian immigrants. Certainly, stereotypes exist for a reason, and undoubtedly there are people in the community who embody the shallow personas presented in the show, but “Russian Dolls” does not represent who we are. And I should know.

My family immigrated to America from Ukraine when I was 12 years old. In the former Soviet Union, the life of a Jew was exceptionally difficult. It was much harder for a Jew to be accepted into any field of higher education, to become a doctor, a lawyer or many other professional occupations. It was prohibited to observe the laws of Judaism or to marry in a Jewish ceremony. As a result, a talented and intelligent population had to take on positions of low stature or flee the country altogether. My father was one of the very few successful Jewish businessmen in the Ukranian city of Chernovitz. My parents had built a comfortable home for my two younger siblings and me. Knowing that the prospects for Jews were significantly limited, they made the difficult decision to immigrate to the United States.

When America opened its gates to immigrants from the Soviet Union, these people embraced this astounding opportunity. Russian Jewry, including my family, saw it as a chance to achieve many great things. Not only was it an opening for economic prospects, but it also offered hope for a brighter future. They had been dreaming that their families and their children might live in a country without restrictions, having rights to religious, political and economic freedoms. Russian Jews, with the exception of a few, did not take this opportunity for granted.

Upon coming to America, and after some time had passed, Russian Jews started reveling in their new freedoms. Being deprived of some basic rights in the former Soviet Union, many have taken it upon themselves to bring their children and families back to their Jewish roots. Some observe the traditions of the Sabbath and joyfully celebrate Jewish holidays. They have instilled good values in their children, such as the importance of higher education, morals and respect for their elders. Their pursuit of economic success, which is often misinterpreted as pure materialism, is a sort of reaction to the deprivations they faced in the former Soviet Union. In order to prevent their children from experiencing the same hardships, they strive for financial security. Most members of this younger generation of Russian-American Jews attend colleges, and almost all go on to pursue graduate degrees.

Russian Jews are not the shallow, primitive or superficial people described in this appalling show. “Russian Dolls” does a great disservice to the community by portraying Russian Jews in such a demeaning manner. It does exactly the opposite of what it is supposed to do: There is no reality to this reality television show; it is just plain caricature.

Genocide is “the deliberate killing of people who belong to a particular racial, political, or cultural group.” Under international law, a crime is committed if there is an intentional attack directed against civilians (called the principle of distinction). “International humanitarian law and the Rome statute permit belligerents to carry out proportionate attacks against military objectives, even when it is known that some civilian deaths or injuries will occur,” stated former chief prosecutor of the International Criminal Court.

While you are correct that the Palestinian people of Gaza are under siege and are being denied basic rights to freedom, movement, education, and life, those rights are denied to them by their own government, which they selected for themselves. Hamas is a designated terrorist organization and its charter seeks the annihilation of the Jewish people and the West.

You see, gorgeous, Hamas hides their rockets in schools, hospitals, and civilian territories where innocent little children play and where the sick are suffering. It then launches those rockets directly into Israel’s homes and populated areas, specifically targeting civilians. Israel is a tiny country, merely a dot on the world map, and yet it is the only democracy in the Middle East. In a desperate attempt to defend themselves from a monstrous enemy, Israel targets Hamas’ military arsenals, the very same locations where Hamas places their women and children. When these children unfortunately die, Israel is blamed by geniuses like you. But who is really committing genocide? And where in the world is your outrage against Hamas?

You are simply parroting what some ignorant politician said on TV when you speak of a conflict you know nothing about. I am no longer your fan. Although we might look alike, you and I are nothing alike. While you stand for lies, I stand for truth, justice, peace, and freedom. And that’s why I stand with Israel. Rest assured that neither I nor my people will sit idly by while Hamas is throwing rockets at Israeli civilians, and while you and your Hollywood buddies are slandering my homeland. So do the world a favor, and think before you speak. And if you can’t do that, just stick to your day job.

Yours truly,

Former fan.

Inna Vernikov is an attorney in New York City.